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Live with purpose.

Live with passion.

Live with love.

Live real.

I help gay men stop living for others and start building lives they actually want.

Being gay in today’s world takes courage, resilience, and a whole lot of self-discovery. Maybe you’ve spent years trying to fit in, putting others first, or playing roles that don’t reflect who you really are. Even after coming out, it can still feel like you’re searching for yourself.

Wherever you are on your journey, you’re not alone. I work with gay men:

  • Facing the challenges of dating, breakups, or building lasting relationships

  • Navigating the corporate world while staying true to themselves

  • Wrestling with the decision to come out at work or with family

  • Reconciling their sexuality with their faith

  • Who are ready to stop surviving and start thriving

I’m not here to hunt for trauma or play the blame game. I’m here to help you take ownership of your happiness, build strong relationships, improve your mental and physical well-being, and get real about what you want next.

Through cognitive-behavioral coaching, mindfulness, and habit changes, I’ll help you create the life you’ve been craving. This isn’t about perfection - it’s about momentum.

Let’s build your best life, one brave step at a time.

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Hi, I’m John.

Let’s do this!

1) Get real about what needs to change

2) Identify your values and find your north star

3) Take responsibility and make a commitment

4) Move forward, one step at a time

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